The Psychology Behind Shakira and Pique’s Sharing

Let’s go to 2010. Shakira shoots a clip for the song Waka Waka she sings for the World Cup, one of the people who played in the music video for the song is football player Pique, and they meet in this way. When Pique sees Shakira later in Madrid, she asks for her phone number. One day “How’s the weather in South Africa?” he sends a message. The couple, who started their relationship in this way, announced that they were married after a while.

The couple, who also have 2 children after marriage, will be in 2022. They announced their separation in June. So far everything is very normal. But recently, Shakira “Music Sessions Vol. He released a song for 53″ with plenty of references.

It’s clear as day that Shakira hints that she’s been cheated on:

Some of the lyrics of the song translated into Turkish are as follows:
“I wish you good luck with my supposed backup
I don’t even know what happened to you
You’re so weird that I don’t even recognize you
I’m worth two 22-year-old girls.
You traded a Ferrari for a Twingo.
You traded a Rolex for a Casio.”

Pique could not remain indifferent to the song and perhaps tried to explain her own righteousness.

After Casio said the watch was for life With a Twingo model vehicle he took video also published.

Shakira also placed her witch costume on Pique’s balcony overlooking her mother’s house and opened her latest song at home aloud.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rSwJSyEcmn0

Let’s not bore you with the tabloid part of the job, let’s get into the subject quickly and look at the event from the perspective of psychology:

Even after the end of the relationship, the effects of the effects of the relationship on the parties still do not end, it is an event that should not be strange, especially after 10 years of being together. But after the separation, the parties still somehow an effort to send a message to the other party an abnormal situation.

Toxic relationships are open to manipulation.

In relationships where there is manipulation, one side is always the other side. to control works. He can do this by persuading the other party, by deprivation, by verbal or psychological violence. In this way, it tries to direct the other party. Lying and blaming are also indispensable in toxic relationships.

When we look at the Shakira thing, if we only go through the song “I don’t know what happened to you” we can say that the other party is thought to have changed. “You’re so weird I don’t even recognize you” In the sentence, the opposite side is a blame there is. In the verses that followed, he talked about how good he was. He may have tried to make the other party think that he made a mistake in losing her. More precisely, a orientation effort let’s say.

So although Pique’s cheating is not the right action, it’s actually Shakira’s a manipulative nature it may have happened. What Pique is trying to say with the watch and the car is that she is trying to prioritize her own ideas, her own wishes and that Shakira is now trying to get her. can’t manipulate It can be said that he is trying to emphasize. Of course, these are just possibilities.

There are also relationships that separation cannot end.

Another possibility is that Shakira is still not able to digest the separation, and in this way, even with references and confrontations. maintain the relationship is the effort. In this case, we can say that Shakira had disappointments, could not accept the situation, and did these because she had feelings such as anger and resentment.

Their sharing may also stem from a defense mechanism that is the result of a separation coping strategy.

People use different methods such as denial, rationalization (cause finding) to cope with emotionally disturbing events or difficult situations and to protect themselves from their effects. ego defense mechanisms they use.

Finally, if we take this theory as a basis, Shakira is also used as a defense mechanism because she thinks she doesn’t deserve what happened. rationalizing the event We can say that he tried to find a logical explanation. He explained the value of himself using the example of a watch and a car, and tried to say that the other party was not normal, did not act rationally, and that there was no fault in him.