Chat Start Tactics on Tinder for Men

The pandemic period has passed through us in many ways, but one of the foremost among them is human relations, especially bilateral relations. In the past, we could go to places such as schools, cafes, bars and meet new people, and if we got along well, we could turn it into a friendship or relationship. Nowadays, when we spend social distance days, unfortunately, it has become much more difficult to do this than before.

Although we are going through a difficult process, face-to-face is not the only way to socialize. Today, there are many applications and through these applications you can meet people; We can be friends or even lovers. Tinder, Happn, Badoo Although we have the opportunity to meet new people thanks to many applications such as men meeting new people it can be more difficult. Even in the case of a match, it is never certain to get a response.

The common problem in such applications: Male excess

In fact, the biggest reason for this is the strange difference in the number of men and women in such applications. With the effect of the lifestyle in our country, men seem to be more willing to use such applications and start a new relationship, while women are always on the shy side of the event. That’s why on Tinder While there are hundreds of matches in 1 woman’s account (disproportionate right shift also has an effect) men can match once a day, sometimes even once a week, depending on the situation. In fact, some of my friends that I know are constantly using Tinder may not be able to catch even one match per month.

In this article male point of view We will use more. There are 2 reasons for this; Firstly, I am a man and I am sharing my own experience along with the experience of the people around me. Secondly, as you can read from the article above, men have more problems in mating than women. Well, when we get that very valuable match, which is once a week or a month, does the other person return directly to us? Unfortunately, this rate can also be extremely low. Because, as we said, the number of people women match with is too many and everyone writes something. If that’s what we men have to do here being different.

Do messages like “Hello, Hi, SA” work?

First of all, let’s make one point clear, if the other person likes you, it doesn’t really matter what you write “at least for a start”. He will get back to you anyway, and he will even be more willing to chat. If you, like me, are a person who cannot go very far in terms of “has an expense” according to general norms, this is where you come in. “interesting conversation starter” mechanics come in. In these mechanics, unfortunately, there are no messages such as “hello”, which we will consider standard. Actually, “hello” is definitely not a bad way to start a message, the real problem here is that everyone sends such messages to women who maybe matched with hundreds of people. So at this point, we have to make a difference so that the other match will attract attention and return to us.

How can we send messages to get feedback on Tinder?

Well, we came to our main topic. I know I’ve kept it long so far, but we needed to clarify some things. There are countless ways to get feedback from the other person on Tinder, and let’s be realistic, not every attempt will reach your goal. However, by following the right steps and doing good analysis, you can get feedback from your match and get the next level. “Instagram, WhatsApp” You can be successful in transitioning to platforms such as After these stages, there is a meeting, after which the relations are completely up to you and the person in front of you. Now, I’m going to talk about some message initiation tactics that I’ve gotten good feedback on while using Tinder, and that even allowed me to not just leave the conversation at the beginning and move on to intense phases. In the meantime, I gathered information from my boyfriends and girlfriends besides me, after all, every person is different and different opinions help to enrich the event. Let’s look at the tactics:

Let’s check your profile

I wanted to open this sub-heading in the logic of a footnote without moving on to the suggestions. Because this will be the subtext of all the suggestions I will give here: We need to check the other person’s profile. Where does he live, which university he goes to, what kind of music he likes, does he work, how is his photos, is he natural or prefers to pay more attention to social media. All these criteria can affect how you should establish the first communication with the other person.

Start a chat directly by throwing music

This tactic doesn’t work for everyone, but especially your profile. Someone who is connected to Spotify and adds the songs they listen to there It’s cut out for you. You can start a conversation using the power of music, “Oh this is so beautiful” or “I know that, but did you listen to that?” It may cause you to receive messages such as: What you should pay attention to here is that the music you will play is really good and in the style of music that the person you are matched with.

One question saves lives

When we start a conversation, we just type one thing and leave the second step to the other person. In this first step, when we write hello, what the other person will write to us will be hello. Then how are you, I’m fine in return, how are you? In the end, the conversation enters into a vicious circle by saying I’m fine too. We do not want this, we want all our followers to have good conversations and have solid friendships and pleasant relations without getting into a vicious circle. For this, it is necessary to ask logical and interesting questions by using the information you collect from the other person’s profile. So what the question sentence is is very important here. go away “How old are you?” If you ask a question, I don’t think it will be very returnable. The main things that can be asked here should be questions that can attract the attention of the other person and allow you to dive into a long conversation. In addition, it would be better not to ask questions that will force the other person to think too much while asking the question, at least at the beginning. For example, “What is your favorite song?” A question like this can push some people. Instead of You can ask about the more general style of music. It always makes sense to open the chat from there and move on to other questions. Here are some examples of questions you can ask on Tinder-style apps:

• “What would you like to ask a person you’ve never met before?”
• “What kind of music do you like?”
• “I guess you like animals like me. And do you have a pet?”
• “Where do you want to go most?”
• “Aren’t you tired of sitting at home? Even though this corona is over, we can do something freely.”

It is also possible to use the question sentences here more effectively. Instead of asking a direct question, you can connect it to a topic that you see on the profile of the person you are matched with and that catches your attention. If we give an example of this; “Hello Merve, you really smile sincerely in your photos, what is the secret of this smile that makes you look much more beautiful?” may be appropriate. In this sentence, while complimenting the other person, we are also connecting ourselves by asking questions.

Without exaggeration, funny messages always have an expense.

Yes, you already got the point. You have to be different in that crowd of Tinder. For this, you need to attract the attention of the other person. As you know, most women like funny men. You can also turn to messages that are not difficult to understand without too much chatter. To give a few examples of these messages;

• “This match is good for the country and the nation.”
• “People who say hello on Tinder say they don’t come back. I think you’ll come back with a nice hello.”

A beautiful GIF can bring hope too

Writing a message may not always create the right environment. The profile of the person you are matched with can also be a complete closed box. One of the life-saving things in such a situation GIF is coming. You can get to the point very quickly using a nice GIF.

Don’t forget the horoscope

One of the best conversation starters when you match a woman on Tinder are horoscopes. Horoscope reviews, star charts It is very likely that you will be plunged into an extremely deep conversation.

What if he didn’t come back, he loses

Despite paying attention to all these, does the person in front of you not return to you? Don’t bother at all, maybe it’s his loss more than yours. Also, keep in mind that Tinder isn’t just for people looking for friendships or relationships. If someone shares the username of other social media accounts on their Tinder profile, it’s very likely He wants to gain organic followers. I don’t think it’s necessary to even swipe right on such profiles. Because the lower your match rate on your Tinder profile, the less your profile will be shown to new people. That’s why, instead of swiping everyone to the right, it would make more sense to like accounts that you really like and think they can get back to you.

The conversation has started, what should I do now?

Yes, you matched with someone on Tinder and started talking to that person with a nice message. After this point, it’s up to you a little more. Depending on what the other person is looking for, it is necessary to keep your speech at a fun and interesting level. For this, instead of the standard subject headings where you can both like and advance the conversation and get to know each other even more in between You should talk about topics. For example, you can have a deep conversation about a movie, tell your troubles, talk about the things you want to do.

Remember that the other person is human.

Here we come to the end of our article today. Please when you match someone Remember that the person next to you is a human being.. in your speechesthis is Tinder anyway, everyone’s purpose is clear“Do not send messages that reach the level of harassment. This will both make you a bad person and He will finish the matter in a very short time for the other person. We hope you can meet good people from Tinder or other platforms and have fun conversations. Before you say no, I suggest you think about how you should approach the person in front of you and approach it in a friendly way.

So what do you pay attention to when using Tinder? “You can also pay attention to the following when starting a conversation” Are there things you say? You can share your thoughts and suggestions with us in the comments section.