The arrest of the couple Dilan and Engin Polat, who have been on the agenda of Turkey for a while, turned the eyes to other phenomena. The exaggerated posts on social media of influencers who became rich in a short time while living a normal life, flaunted their magnificent lives, and changed their perception of beauty by having plastic surgery continue to leave question marks in minds.
Dilan Polat’s from slum life In a period of 5 years, the transition to birthday celebrations with chartered planes, Turkish coffees with gold dust, and curlers decorated with dollars has attracted not only the followers but also the followers. in judicial authorities It’s on your radar.
Looking at it from a different perspective, so to speak “upstart” experienced by many phenomena called mental states We asked the experts. However, first, let’s remember what these people bring to the agenda and then evaluate the reasons that may underlie their behavior.
What other “get rich quick” phenomena are on the radar?
Especially after Dilan Polat’s arrest, all eyes were suddenly on began to attract attention from many social media users. and turned to influencers who lived very extravagant lives.
Özlem and Tayyar Öz While the glamorous life of the couple began to be questioned, the fact that they presented their lives as more “normal” after Dilan Polat’s arrest made many people think of this situation. “fear” caused him to define it as . Sharing with imitation gold is also shown as an example of this.
He is also a friend of Dilan Polat. Şule Kayatürk (Sulemsi) is another focal point.
Especially after the emergence of her past photos. “Where did it come from?” Shulemsi stands out with both its physical change and richness.
Also yesterday, Shulemsi; It was claimed that he had 16 villas, 28 flats, 1 helicopter, 173 workplaces and 1 yacht. The response to this situation from Fenome was not delayed and the allegations were he denied.
Beauty centers of Shulemsi We can say that while its presence increased the public’s level of anxiety, it also reduced the trust in such centers.
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Who entered our lives with a game show Bahar and Nihal Candan Considering how the brothers live in ultra luxury Journalist Timur Soykan Another claim was brought forward by.
Is human health being played with to become famous?
After Dilan Polat was arrested on charges of money laundering cosmetics industry We can say that it was shaken up a bit. Dilan Polat has opened cosmetic stores in many parts of Turkey and has launched Rise and Shine The reliability of branded cosmetic products has also become a mystery.
While some of the stores were closed and employees were leaving some, the Dilan Polat Beauty Salon website was also closed. Lawyer Feyza Altun Statements that cosmetic products did not contain natural ingredients and were contract manufacturing also caused the products to be disclosed.
The facts behind the health products sold by Tayyar Öz began to emerge with Feyza Altun’s statements. Tarhanas with insects, Label changes of expired products were shared on X.
What if we evaluate these phenomena from a spiritual perspective?
The possible underlying reasons why phenomena with millions of followers suddenly become rich and visible while living a normal life, and why they share their rich lives in an exaggerated way psychological states We asked the experts.
Expert Clinical Psychologist Alimert Balta, whom we consulted on the subject, said: He evaluated the masks on social media.
Balta said, “People have masks. “The more differences there are between the person’s idealized self and the person he wants to be, the more psychological problems he will face.” said.
After reaching the idealized identity of the person, Balta is used to protect this identity in one way or another. mythomania, that is, lying and states that he may come to believe the lie he tells himself. According to Balat, the fact that these people make intense efforts to convince those around them of the lies they tell is actually part of what they do.
Dilan Polat’s spitting on the screen Regarding his condescending attitude, Balat says: Revealing a lie brings anger, and this anger makes the person more aggressive. This attitude of Dilan Polat may be the emotional state of being confronted with the truth of her lies.
Could all of this be an indicator of narcissistic personality disorder?
Psychiatrist Dr. Nilüfer Güney Şengezer He conveyed his comments about the social media hoaxes of the phenomena who are called “upstarts” and attract attention with their magnificent lives.
Güney Şengezer points out that people who are rich through illegal means and who comment as if they are experts on that field, even though they have no profession, are actually deceiving people with false information. they also deceived themselves He says it is.
“How can they do this knowing that it is a crime?” Güney Şengezer’s answer to our question is as follows: Underneath all these behaviors; striving to reach one’s ideal self, narcissistic personality disorder (exaggerated sense of arrogance), the feeling of compensating for what he sees as his own shortcomings or flaws by gaining admiration, and striving for financial gain it could be.
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Is the reason for his behavior today due to his childhood?
Dilan Polat’s father, Rıfat Doğu, is the one who killed his wife due to a brain tumor.
Güney Şengezer explains that the tendency to lie underlying all of these behaviors is actually a tendency that has been going on since childhood. in moral development, says that problems may exist. Güney Şengezer also If parents are hypocrites, sees every path to reward as permissible and If it’s full of hate instead of love He underlines that children can also be prone to lie and deceive.
These phenomena may be one of the effects of the pandemic on our lives.
Güney Şengezer adds that the pandemic has changed the lives of many people. “Especially after the pandemic worsening economic situation Everyone is looking to get rich the easy way. “The low sociocultural group is also shown that it is possible to achieve wealth and their dreams.”
How do they deceive people?
Psychiatrist Dr. To Nilüfer Güney Şengezer; We also asked how influencers who get rich easily and give advice outside their field of expertise manage to deceive people. Güney Şengezer said, “Millions of people following these people, jealousy feels. The deprivation they feel when they stay away from social media more than alcohol and tobacco.”
“As a result of the research, it has been determined that we have drifted into a passive and consuming society and social relations have decreased. It has been determined that although this situation increases the level of anxiety and stress, they continue to use it in order not to miss anything important. Especially the young segment using Instagram; Intense anxiety about body images “It has been found that their mental health is also affected by the appreciation they receive.”
Güney Şengezer, fraudster and some other phenomena speaking in public He also states that they constantly cultivate the perception that he is like one of their followers. Changing physical appearances with plastic surgery “to ideal dimensions” Güney Şengezer says that they are getting closer and adds that the reason for this is the image that the followers want to achieve.
It is worth noting…
It is worth noting that the explanations are not made individually. The evaluations made by experts only show what this type of people may face. each is an estimate.
In fact, when we look back at all these events, we may think that we did all of these. Among the millions of followers, one could be your cousin, another could be your friend, or you. The goals that phenomena want to achieve influence of many It is obvious that it is.
Suddenly appeared on social media and started selling products, shooting videos with money flying in the air, who does not hesitate to use even his children In order not to put people on the agenda and not to be complicit in a crime, we should not deceive ourselves.
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